26 (F) and Feeling Lost in My Career - Seeking Advice

Hey everyone, I’m 26 and feeling incredibly lost in my career. I graduated in 2021 with a business degree, with half of my college years spent on Zoom, and since then, my professional life has been a rollercoaster.

I landed my first stable job as a business associate, but my boss turned out to be toxic, constantly nagging me, and the culture was full of politics. I moved on to a marketing position, which I enjoyed, but I was "promoted" to a managerial role I couldn’t handle. The extra challenges and biases I faced only made things worse.

Things seemed to improve when I found a role at a new company I really liked, but they went through layoffs, and I was let go again. Applying religiously has been really tough. Now, my contract position at an advertising agency in NYC is nearing its end, and I’m back to feeling lost and unsure of my future.

This cycle of instability over the past few years has left me feeling like I've hit rock bottom. Job hunting sucks. Is anyone else feeling stuck in their mid-20s? Any advice or guidance would be greatly appreciated.

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Heather Romanoff

Manager of Raiser Operations

The toxicity and regular layoffs with so many people unemployed or under employed has a similar feel to 2006 - 2008. A lot of us put up with toxic behavior because there were no jobs.

It did prompt a lot of people to begin looking at what other skills they might have. There was a wave of self-employed and small businesses that got started. Unfortunately, it also led to a "girl boss" mentality, but it did help to get people through some very tough years.

Maybe there's something in figuring out ways to freelance or develop a marketable skill that either complements or is outside your degree.

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Anonymous

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Hi, there OP! I feel you. I’m 25, and my career’s been all over the place since COVID. Lost my first job, dealt with a toxic boss, and got laid off again. It’s rough out here. Just wanted to say you’re not alone. 🤍

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Anonymous

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Hey, I totally get how you're feeling. It's really tough out there, especially after graduating during COVID.

You've been through a lot with toxic bosses and layoffs, but it shows how resilient you are. Take a breath and reflect on what you enjoyed in your past jobs. Focus your job search there.

Networking and talking to others in similar situations can really help too. Remember, you're not alone and it's okay to feel lost. You've got this. Hang in there!

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